Saturday, December 6, 2008

Task 3

This one was so specific and detailed....

a photo of a Dom pulling down a blue panty from his submissive .. she must have angel wings on

I was unable to find that.

Task 2

A photo of a Mistress watching her sub with another male. I went one step further....and this Mistress is not just watching, but demanding and directing...


Tasks - 1

Mistress assigned me a series of tasks - each was to collect a specific photo. Some I managed...some I did not. Task #1...a photo of a man serving his Mistress with the word "Thursday" in the caption.


Stay focused slut. Remember, 10,000 worshipful kisses in one week if you want to cum again in 2008. That is only kiss number 658 and it is already Thursday night.

Wednesday, December 3, 2008

Holidays

This time of year is so busy for everyone, myself included. yourtoy, can you feel your silver chain being tugged, 0r should I just jerk you back to earth with a flick of my wrist?

M.

Monday, November 24, 2008

Time Off

I must go for a few days, be back asap.
M.

Saturday, November 22, 2008

This would please me, you will need a small sharp pair of scissors, your bra and panties and be in a place where you are alone...I may direct you in a certain manner to cum. Or while standing in the corner singing I'm a little tea pot short and small, here is my handle here is my spout. Another is to make you orgasm a minimum of three times per day for a couple of weeks ... then ...
if I tell the rest, you will be left in suspense. Sitting on the side of the bed, holding a paper cup for you to dribble in .

A chastity device is something I want to experiment with...yes, it can be done your toy.

M.

Friday, November 21, 2008

Thoughts on milking

Mistress told me to write my thoughts about milking. And I suppose that depends on how you define it.

Traditionally, milking means massaging the prostate so that the male is drained of seminal fluid without him being able to control or stop the drain and without any ejaculatory pleasure. This can be done to frustrate the male by not allowing him pleasure, to help prolong his stamina for use later, to humiliate the male by forcing him to watch his fluid taken from his body against his will, and to help with prostate health when no other release is allowed over long periods of time. For this practice, I think the occasional release of fluid for prostate health is essential. Many folks seem to think at least every couple of weeks is a good routine for this practice. As for the humiliation and submission associated with it, I am certain it would feel submissive and there would be a great deal of erotic humiliation with the routine. I've also read that it can be quite difficult for a male to do this to himself...that a partner is much better at performing this routine.

But sometimes in D/s relationships, milking is a term used for other practices. Sometimes it is used interchangeably with the term ruined orgasm. I don't think the swap of labels is accurate. A ruined orgasm is performed differently...it is actually providing some stimulation right to the brink of orgasm and then depriving the male of any more stimulation thus creating a rather unsatisfying orgasm. There is usually no prostate massage involved. While it may serve the same purposes of taking away ejaculatory control and pleasure from the male and of giving his prostate a workout, it is a different activity. So in this case, I use the term ruined orgasm.

Lastly, I've seen some refer to milking as the practice of the Dominant stroking the male to orgasm as means of forced orgasm. She is taking his cum from him. It may be done in some humiliating manner or not. But the objective is often humiliation and loss of power/control over his own orgasm. However, at least the male is receiving all the ejaculatory pleasure of this orgasm as his fluid is drained. The purpose here may be a regular release for prostate health, humiliation, demonstrating control, exhibition, or simply for the joy of taking his orgasm without giving him any control.

And how do I feel about all of these? All seem very humiliating. All seem to have an erotic appeal. All seem very submissive. I agree that the prostate needs some release and work to remain healthy and all seem to provide that.

I've experienced some ruined orgasms and forced milking...and both were frustrating, humiliating and very erotic. I've never experienced a prostate milking.