Time Off

I must go for a few days, be back asap.
M.

This would please me, you will need a small sharp pair of scissors, your bra and panties and be in a place where you are alone...I may direct you in a certain manner to cum. Or while standing in the corner singing I'm a little tea pot short and small, here is my handle here is my spout. Another is to make you orgasm a minimum of three times per day for a couple of weeks ... then ...
if I tell the rest, you will be left in suspense. Sitting on the side of the bed, holding a paper cup for you to dribble in .

A chastity device is something I want to experiment with...yes, it can be done your toy.

M.

Thoughts on milking

Mistress told me to write my thoughts about milking. And I suppose that depends on how you define it.

Traditionally, milking means massaging the prostate so that the male is drained of seminal fluid without him being able to control or stop the drain and without any ejaculatory pleasure. This can be done to frustrate the male by not allowing him pleasure, to help prolong his stamina for use later, to humiliate the male by forcing him to watch his fluid taken from his body against his will, and to help with prostate health when no other release is allowed over long periods of time. For this practice, I think the occasional release of fluid for prostate health is essential. Many folks seem to think at least every couple of weeks is a good routine for this practice. As for the humiliation and submission associated with it, I am certain it would feel submissive and there would be a great deal of erotic humiliation with the routine. I've also read that it can be quite difficult for a male to do this to himself...that a partner is much better at performing this routine.

But sometimes in D/s relationships, milking is a term used for other practices. Sometimes it is used interchangeably with the term ruined orgasm. I don't think the swap of labels is accurate. A ruined orgasm is performed differently...it is actually providing some stimulation right to the brink of orgasm and then depriving the male of any more stimulation thus creating a rather unsatisfying orgasm. There is usually no prostate massage involved. While it may serve the same purposes of taking away ejaculatory control and pleasure from the male and of giving his prostate a workout, it is a different activity. So in this case, I use the term ruined orgasm.

Lastly, I've seen some refer to milking as the practice of the Dominant stroking the male to orgasm as means of forced orgasm. She is taking his cum from him. It may be done in some humiliating manner or not. But the objective is often humiliation and loss of power/control over his own orgasm. However, at least the male is receiving all the ejaculatory pleasure of this orgasm as his fluid is drained. The purpose here may be a regular release for prostate health, humiliation, demonstrating control, exhibition, or simply for the joy of taking his orgasm without giving him any control.

And how do I feel about all of these? All seem very humiliating. All seem to have an erotic appeal. All seem very submissive. I agree that the prostate needs some release and work to remain healthy and all seem to provide that.

I've experienced some ruined orgasms and forced milking...and both were frustrating, humiliating and very erotic. I've never experienced a prostate milking.

Denial for Months

your toy was denied 53 days before release the first time, and 89 the second. What do I want ?
Time will tell...
90 days today

To Milk Or Not To Milk...That Is The Question

First of all, let me inform you all the your toy has went months being denied ...

Today while reading blogs, I came across this article. Opinions ?

Orgasm Denial

It is not uncommon for subs and their Dommes to report that the submissive loses the compelling desire to serve and obey after they have been granted the privilege to reaching orgasm. ( your toy does not fit into this category) One obvious solution to this problem is the complete denial of the right to orgasm; however, studies show that for good prostate health, a male should ejaculate at least once every two weeks. No Domme wants her boy to risk his health, so the solution is prostate milking or massage.

Massaging the prostate forces seminal fluid and sperm past the valves in the ejaculatory ducts, and empty the prostate (which discharges directly into the urethra). If there is no stimulation given to the penis for a brief time before the prostate massage begins, draining of the ejaculate into the urethra will not trigger orgasm. Once ejaculate appears, it will help to empty the urethra by running a finger firmly up the underside of the penis from the root to the head, pushing the ejaculate in front of it.

Once a sufficient amount of ejaculatory fluid has been drained, insufficient fluid pressure to trigger the ejaculatory reflex will remain, and no amount of penile stimulation will result in orgasm until the fluid glands are recharged. This may take several hours to several days.

How long to go between milking will have to be gauged by experiment. A particularly effective way of increasing an orgasm deprived male's sense of sexual frustration and thus his desire to serve and please Mistress between prostate millings is to you’re your boy masturbate himself once a day every day to just short of orgasm, then install him into a chastity device.


A little pain is good for him every now and then, but I do not want to kill him.
Any thoughts on this?

Wow...if only..........

A very good blog is Erotic Garden. It is...well...erotic!

It recently shared this photo...


That is soooo hot. And something I've not experienced for a very, very, very long time. It surely made me ache!